These days, change is visible everywhere. Everything is drastically changing from our basic routine to important things such as our perception. And this change is necessary for growth.
But there are lots of questions regarding this.
Is Change good?
To begin with, most people would say change is good, but that’s not the whole truth.
Change is good only if it’s not affecting something negatively.
I firmly believe that change is more or less situational. Yes, sometimes change is selfish. While for some, change can act as a stimulus in self-realisation.
Many times, in our lives, we get to hear “you’ve changed ”. That doesn’t always have to be in the wrong or right way. It can be just normal. Just like our physical outlook changes with time. A person can change emotionally and spiritually too. That’s pretty much normal. Not good, not bad, just normal.
Why is change important to growth?
Well, if you stay the same for your whole life, you may not be able to experience different adversities of life. It would be dull and mundane. Change makes life more happening, and exciting.
But, you definitely don’t change just for fun. There could be several other reasons.
For example, maybe you have gotten sincere and mature about life and subsequently, you changed your lifestyle.
Or it could be that you no longer like doing what you used to do.. so you quit it and started something else. This doesn’t make your last 2 years in that job a waste… it’s learning. Not good, not bad, just normal.
Is change constant in life?
Nobody wants to stay the same in any terms of life. Change is inevitable. You may be able to delay it, but you can’t deny it when it’s absolutely necessary.
Moreover, if the change didn’t occur, everything in the world would have been perfectly smooth. But change makes life imperfectly beautiful.
Fluctuations are magnificent and any single reason cannot justify them.
When to make a change in your life?
The answer to this question is pretty much there in the question. The moment you start thinking about change in any way, your inside knows you need it.
You just have to make it happen through your actions. There is no right time for it to happen.
Just trust your gut and try things a little differently. Things will automatically start flowing in an appropriate direction.
How does change affect your life?
The consequences always rely on the impact it has. The larger the impact, the more consequences.
For example, coming out of a toxic relationship is a big step in life. Your life will drastically change once you make this change.
It will get better. You’ll feel more confident.
It also depends on what kind of change it is. If it’s a change towards a positive direction, you’ll see a positive result.
Why change life?
Changing life requires effort and time. Depending upon the situation, some changes happen with small steps taken every day.
On the flip side, a big step can change your life magnificently as well.
But not everyone feels excitement about bringing a change and that’s the beauty of it. Because it’s a personal choice.
Yes, sometimes or the other, it’s forced too. Like your family may influence some of your life choices. But ultimately, you are the real decision-maker.
See, I am not writing this post to make you feel bad about your life and help you change it. I am only telling you what it is like. It’s totally up to you!!!
If your gut is pushing you to bring some change or constantly telling you to do something you have never done. Just listen to it. Be your own boss.
Why do we resist it?
Many people do it to themselves. Probably, because they don’t see the worth of doing so. Or they are too lazy to begin at first.
Or they are afraid of it and not good at adapting. Or they don’t really see eye to eye with it.
There could be multiple reasons. It’s hard you know! Just like changing habits.
Is everyone capable of a change?
Absolutely!!
Anyone can change. That means a devil can turn out to be a kind person. A toxic can transform into the nicest trait of a being. Depression can come to end.
But it all starts with a choice.
Thank you so much for reading. I hope it helps.