We all witness times when we cannot find answers to fundamental but essential questions in life. We all have been there. We know the answer deep down in our hearts but we are just not able to find it at that particular moment.
So, if you’re in such a situation in your life, where you don’t know what your heart wants. Well, you can always come to this page and pick whatever you need.
I definitely don’t wanna spend more time explaining. So, Let’s get started!
Question 1: Choosing a Career or Love
One of the most difficult questions of life is to know what to choose between love and career. My younger self who loves Bollywood Romance and Christmas Love type of stuff would have definitely chosen Love over career, anytime.
But life is not a movie. Nothing is the same.
Read this too: How to be honest with yourself?
So, if you’re someone who is going through such a phase in life where you have to choose one over another.
I would first suggest taking a deep breath. Relax and sit with yourself.
Not everyone needs the same thing. We all have different ambitions, purposes and most importantly, different stories to tell and roles to play.
Therefore, it’s important to first calm yourself down and take the stress away. And then, try to deeply concentrate on what you want in life and what is life offering you at that moment.
Sometimes, it’s a lifetime opportunity to get your career on track and sometimes it’s a partner that can make you happy.
Now, you should analyse yourself and see what really matters to you. Prioritise that.
If you think, a move towards a career would give you all the happiness and prosperity that you desire. Go for it.
Will I regret it?
Many times, in life we regret taking certain decisions or choosing one option over the other.
For example, last year, when I was a newbie in Canada, I was offered two jobs. Both jobs were entirely different from each other and I kind of liked both. But I could only do one because of certain reasons and I made my choice.
A few months into the job, I started regretting my choice and thought of quitting it and going back. I wished to somehow go back in time and make a change. But that wasn’t possible.
So, I moved forward with a smile and kept on doing what I was doing but at the same time, I started looking for a similar job that I got offered before.
And, you may call it luck o whatever, but I’d say destiny always brings you closer to where you are meant to be.
I got the job.
So, the moral of the story is to keep moving forward. Rather than stressing about what has already happened, I chose to move forward with my choice and kept trying.
Yes, it happens to everyone. Sometimes we regret the decisions we took and that’s okay.
If you wanna change something, believe in your thoughts. Have faith in them, and life will automatically show you the way.
And this time, trust me, it’s going to be better. I got more than I asked for.
Should I say yes?
Life bombards you with questions when you least expect it. And sometimes it’s a simple yes or no that can make a big difference.
Once again, ask my younger self and she’ll tell you to say yes to anything and everything life puts you in.
I mean bro, it’s hella adventurous and fun!
But you are old and mature now. You cannot just say yes to everything or you can, I mean totally your call.
But I’d rather say one thing, if you’re confused about something, don’t decide in rush. And don’t you say YES.
Think, analyse its impacts, match it with your priorities and then go ahead.
Thank you for reading. Hope it helps.