Chubby Girl Diaries

“The greatest victory is not winning against others. But winning against self”

Hello everyone!

If you’re someone who wants to achieve something big in life, well you need to take little steps every day to reach bigger destinations. And today I’ll be sharing some difficult but not impossible stuff that can help you win. So, let’s dive right into it!

Stepping out of your comfort zone.

I understand, that there are times when you love being in your arena. Doing nothing but eating, sleeping and repeating it. However, if you keep on retreating from life, you won’t be able to grow. And to not be able to grow means you’ll be stuck where you are currently. Do you want to limit yourself? Do you want to stay stuck and do nothing about that? No, right?

So, don’t be too sweet yourself. Get up, before you drown. Because opportunities will knock at your door if you fail to recognise them every time. One day, they’ll get tired too. So, wake up and create your path. It’s nobody else’s responsibility. Turn your dream life into a reality. Make life yours, and truly yours.

Bravery.

If you want to win in any field, including life, you need to push yourself. You need to stand up for yourself. You need to be bold, not aggressive.

When you welcome hurdles with a smile, life becomes afraid of you. And if that happens, you know you have more chances of winning. So take every day as a test, in which you do not just have to survive but live and win.

There’s enough space for everyone in the world. Therefore, chin up! And face it with bravery. Even if you get cold feet, make sure that only you know that. Don’t let your enemy read your fearful face.

Taking action.

“Don’t talk the talk, unless you can walk the walk.”

Nobody is running after you with a knife in their hand. So, don’t rush life yourself. Take small steps. Little by little, those actions will start making a difference even if you feel like you’re going slow. It’s okay! Nobody competes with you. Everyone’s journey is different from yours. Don’t bother yourself. Concentrate on what you can do at the present moment that will help you for a lifetime. It can be as simple as making your bed after you wake up.

Setting up priorities

We all have tasks that we need to do. Certain tasks demand urgency, while others don’t. We need to differentiate them and prioritise them accordingly. Because if you prioritise everything, you’ll hardly have any priorities. It’s significant to set them up. As a result, you’ll save more time and accomplish all the deadlines.

Experiencing life fully

Stay in the present moment. Because you have power at this time. And if you pay attention, you can make good things happen. There’s no happiness in dwelling on the past. And thinking about the future would also be useless. So, run your life yourself. Experience it once and for all. It would be worth it. Believe me!!!

Facing fears

Most of us don’t face our fears. we are always scared of trying out things differently. For example, one of my friends can’t sleep alone in the darkness.

some people have stage fears. They can’t go in public.

Well, in a world full of people you cannot avoid people right!!

So go get out of your regular zone. Face your fears. You only have one life. Be brave darling!

Don’t let someone force you into things.

Sometimes we all think that following in our parent’s footsteps is the best we can do in our life. But it isn’t always true.

I mean, I don’t want you to go against your loved ones. All I want for you is to follow your heart or else you won’t be satisfied in the long run.

Never stop learning.

Even your enemy can teach you a lot. so think about what an ordinary person/ stranger can teach you.

Don’t quit learning. There’s a saying that goes if you don’t learn sh*t from other people. You’ll go through it yourself. So what do you think is better?

Sometimes, you even go through the same hell more than once. I hope you don’t do that to yourself. Open yourself to new things.