Hello wonderful people!!! I can see that the world is becoming a beautiful place. It’s time to beautify our mindsets as well. Let’s judge less and appreciate more!!!
Scars
Our scars, no matter how deep they are, can never be stronger than us. Embrace them!! I know it’s easier said than done!!! So take it one step at a time. Be it pimples, acne, stretch marks, birthmarks, wounds, etc. It’s okay. You probably have heard that moon has scars too. But those scars don’t stop the moon from shining magnificently every night.
Then why limit yourself to your outlook, and work on developing a good heart and a brave mindset. Nobody will be able to hurt you.
Also, as I have already mentioned I don’t have a perfect outlook either. And every time I look back to the days when I was in high school, trying to hide my scars in every way I could than embracing them. I realise that the world never really bothered me much!! Yes, they used to ask what happened and blah blah, and it was painful hearing that. But it wasn’t painful because they asked, it was painful because I, didn’t like them.
Even when I get all glammed up for a party or occasion, I used to overthink people asking me about my acne or my skin texture. But, now I believe it was me who didn’t accept myself and did the overthinking.
So, now whenever people tell me, “You have a lot of pimples and acne”, I am like “Oh, yeah, aren’t they pretty cute. I feel like they highlight my beauty and protect me from negativity” And they are like shhh!!! And I feel so confident!!
So, get up ladies and gentlemen!!! Let’s start accepting ourselves if we want others to do the same.
Divorce
Again, divorce is not something you ever think. I know how people stare at the women gossiping around ” You know, she is divorced. She must be having some flaws.” And same goes for the men who were decent and yet suffered.
It’s a big decision for two people to get a divorce. They file for it because they are not happy together. They are not feeling comfortable in each other’s company. Think about how hard it would have been for both of them to come to this stage. It would have been so hard waking up to see someone who they don’t understand and love.
They have already been through a lot guys. We should not be adding our opinions on their relationship. Let’s not make it tough for them. Instead, let’s hope things get better for them. Normalise.
Plastic Surgery
It’s a fundamental right of everyone to choose the way they want to live life. They have every right to make their choices. And same goes for the men and women who get surgeries done. Think about why they go for it?
The most common answer is that they have insecurities about themselves. They don’t feel good. And why is that? Because most of us made them feel like so, intentionally or unintentionally.
I cannot tolerate cruelty. I mean that! We don’t need that. Let’s get better and not say anything mean to anyone. We talk bad about their outlooks, and why they get surgeries and become pretty, we call them plastic monsters. This is not fair at all. People will always say something. No, People shouldn’t be saying anything to anyone but minding their own business. Let’s normalise it!